Afraid of intimacy with this person?

frances ?

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I've never had a problem with intimacy. But lately, I've felt this way around a guy I have feelings for. I hate when he puts his arm around me, hugs me, ect. It's infuriating because I really do care about him... on a romantic level... It makes no sense as to why I would feel this way. I feel like we're almost the same person, which is pretty scary at times but the thing is that I want to be with him when we're in a group of people, but when I'm alone with him... I'm terrified. (Note: ive never been like this around anyone.)
 
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