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Adelynn
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Hey everyone, I just have a question on the next move I should take in my life. I just graduated from nursing school and have been offered a job in the ICU in a hospital near home. My parents want me to live with them while I do this job. I'm nervous about leaving home because I'm afraid it'll put us in bad terms. My dad doesn't talk to me and has always really just been very critical of me calling me worthless and such. He doesn't talk to me. I gueess...I've had an abusive childhood and always did what they told me so now I'm just...I don't know how to make a decision and feel comfortable with it because I always think I'm making a bad one. I can't make decisions.
Well, another friend's hospital has offered me a position in the ER at their hospital and she has offered to let me stay with her until I can find my own place. Problem is I don't want to stay there because eventually you really wear out your welcome, especially since she has 6 dogs that hate company. This place is 2 hours away from home.
I don't know...i just really dont' know what to do? I know what I want to do but I always feel like I need to stay home to make something up to my parents. My dad paid for college so I feel like I should stay and help him with money. I feel like I have to make up the way I've been in the past with them. My dad and I really don't talk to each other and I know if I move away...that'll get even worst...
I just need someone's serious non-bias advice. I can't get that from friends...I just need serious responses. I need to make a decision soon.
Well, another friend's hospital has offered me a position in the ER at their hospital and she has offered to let me stay with her until I can find my own place. Problem is I don't want to stay there because eventually you really wear out your welcome, especially since she has 6 dogs that hate company. This place is 2 hours away from home.
I don't know...i just really dont' know what to do? I know what I want to do but I always feel like I need to stay home to make something up to my parents. My dad paid for college so I feel like I should stay and help him with money. I feel like I have to make up the way I've been in the past with them. My dad and I really don't talk to each other and I know if I move away...that'll get even worst...
I just need someone's serious non-bias advice. I can't get that from friends...I just need serious responses. I need to make a decision soon.