Advice on secret boyfriend?

Sarah Nikkole

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Okay so last Tuesday my boyfriend and I broke up. We'd had a little fight and then a long talk about how hard things were getting between us what with our parents and our studying and our own social lives. So it was a mutual decision, and really the first day I wasn't that sad about it all. But then two days later in the afternoon I was starting to really feel sad remembering about all the fun we'd had and all the good memories and what I was missing out on. Later that night though, he started saying how much he missed me and he was sincere and I was telling him how much I missed him too. So after a long talk we got back together again; but secretly. No one knows about us and we plan to keep it that way. He keeps saying how he feels like we have something special, and I know him; he wouldn't have asked to be with me again if he didn't think it was worth it. I love this guy... a lot. And he keeps saying that he loves me, and truthfully he says it more than me. But it's hard. If we want to go out together, we have to say it's as friends. And then my friends will probably invite themselves to come along. Then there's this other problem. His friend really likes me and has asked me out. He keeps saying I'm hot and flirting with me but I mean... I can't go out with him because I'm still with my old boyfriend. I told him today that I wasn't ready for another relationship and I could see what he was trying to do. He got kind of upset about it... but I think he's going to keep trying to be with me. What should I do? I really need help =(. Please anything is good :).
 
tell the guy who keeps flirting with you, that your interested in someone else. make sure you talk to your bf in detail about why he wants to keep it a secret because that's not a good sign, unless it means u get more time together which could be the reason. me personally i want to tell the world about my gf she's so amazing and i love her to death.
 
tell the guy who keeps flirting with you, that your interested in someone else. make sure you talk to your bf in detail about why he wants to keep it a secret because that's not a good sign, unless it means u get more time together which could be the reason. me personally i want to tell the world about my gf she's so amazing and i love her to death.
 
Just keep telling this guy you are not interesting in going out with him and possible try ignoring him if he doesn't stop. Also if you and your boyfriend think it's easier to keep the relationship a secret for now then continue to if you guys thinks it's for the best. But if you want to have more alone time together without your friends tagging along then just meet up together without telling any of your friends.
 
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