I'm 18 years old, and I'm still a virgin...
Not very many of my friends are still virgins, and I'm feeling left out):
For awhile I had it in my head that I wanted to wait until marriage to have sex but now that I'm older I'm having second thoughts.
I feel ready to have sex, I just don't want to look back in 10 years and wish I waited until my honeymoon.
ALOT of people tell me I'm being unrealistic but then others say they wished they would have waited. None of my friends tell me to wait. They just talk about how great their sex life is.
I originally made the decision to stay a virgin because I was scared to get pregnant...But recently, like with in the past few years I've stayed one because I started going to church and learning more about the way God designed marriage and sex.
About a year ago I started having oral sex, and started doing everything except actual sex. And I mean EVERYTHING except penetration.
But I read in my bible about virginity being a sign of purity. And I'm definitely not pure anymore...lol. SO now I feel like....whats the point of not having sex whenever I've done everything else? I'm kinda like "might as well!".
Should I still wait or should I just have sex because I've already done everything else...? Isn't it kind of pointless to wait until my honeymoon if I'm not even pure anymore?
Not very many of my friends are still virgins, and I'm feeling left out):
For awhile I had it in my head that I wanted to wait until marriage to have sex but now that I'm older I'm having second thoughts.
I feel ready to have sex, I just don't want to look back in 10 years and wish I waited until my honeymoon.
ALOT of people tell me I'm being unrealistic but then others say they wished they would have waited. None of my friends tell me to wait. They just talk about how great their sex life is.
I originally made the decision to stay a virgin because I was scared to get pregnant...But recently, like with in the past few years I've stayed one because I started going to church and learning more about the way God designed marriage and sex.
About a year ago I started having oral sex, and started doing everything except actual sex. And I mean EVERYTHING except penetration.
But I read in my bible about virginity being a sign of purity. And I'm definitely not pure anymore...lol. SO now I feel like....whats the point of not having sex whenever I've done everything else? I'm kinda like "might as well!".
Should I still wait or should I just have sex because I've already done everything else...? Isn't it kind of pointless to wait until my honeymoon if I'm not even pure anymore?