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karlie222
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I am 18 years old and have been with my current boyfriend 3 years this past new years. He is 22 years old and has a 4 year old daughter who I adore. When we first met and started going out he was just after cleaning his life up. He used to do drugs while in highschool for a couple of years and was addicted to oxycontin. I did not know my boyfriend when he was an addict. Although over the past few months we began to have problems, and this morning he called me and told me he has relapsed over the past couple of months. He begged me to bring him to a detox center, which I did and where he currently is. I am really actually lost as I am only 18 years old myself and have no idea how to deal with this. He does not have the support of his parents, who don't seem bothered to even consider the fact that they should go through counselling with him to try and figure out the problem, or that they may have contributed. His brother was part of the reason for his relapse, although I realize I can't "blame" anyone else. I know he neeRAB me but I feel totally drained and made a fool of. I feel like I have given up everything for this person. I did nothing over my highschool years because I spent all my time with him and his daughter. I spent countless nights in the hospital with them because his daughter had cerebral palsy and suffers seizures. Not that I regret anything, it is just so hard to believe that he could go back to this life knowing what it was like and knowing he has a "sick" daughter who neeRAB him. This makes it all that much worse and I could really use some advice.