I asked the question before, but I posted it in the wrong section. I'm sorry for the double post and if you read and/or ignored my post before, feel free to insult me lol
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My GF and I have been discussing a threesome. We are both kinda unsure, but she feels that we should "get it over with" before we get deeper into the relationship. We are about 1.5 years in.
Yea, I know I'm male and this is the ultimate male fantasy right? To be honest, I've fantasized about a threesome. However I'm afraid of what it might do to the relationship. I love this girl and she loves me. And I'm not sure if I'm very keen on the idea of sharing the first woman I've ever loved.
I've suspected for quite sometime that she was bi-curious and found out a few months ago that she was involved with another girl (kissing and touch but no oral.....as she tells it). The encounter with the female occured before we met. She claims that she isn't bisexual but has admitted to fantasizing about other women as well as me during masturbation. I know some of these fantasizes are normal, but I just have a feeling.
I believe that she is bisexual, given some of the comments she makes about other females. I don't find anything inherently wrong with this, but this brings up the fear that if I were to go through with this threesome and she was attracted to this other girl that she might leave me, brokenhearted. It could also, in my opinion, open up a "can of worms"..where she hooks up with other women (cheating) w/o my knowledge, leaving me again with a broken heart.
I don't think we should do this. But I get the feeling that she wants the opportunity to explore this side of her sexuality. I don't want to be overbearing because I fear this might drive her further away from me, but I'm not completely comfortable with the idea of this because of my strong feelings for her.
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Then there is the other side of the coin. She is worried about me possibly leaving her for the other girl that we would bring into the bed room. She also said she isn't sure if she would want me to go down on this girl or how she would feel if I penetrated this girl. I also tend to get into it when I'm having sex.....idk how she would feel about some of the things that may or maynot come out of my mouth.
So if your still reading at this point lol: Should I "man-up" and go through with it or should I voice my concerns?
Additional notes:
I'm feel like I'm split in three, the romantic part of me is saying HELL NO. The intellectual part of me is saying that this should be done to see: 1) if she is indeed bisexual or just a lil curious, 2) How I feel about sharing her before I go deeper into the relationship and visa versa. And the male part of me is saying THREESOME BABY lol.
Sorry once again for the double post.
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My GF and I have been discussing a threesome. We are both kinda unsure, but she feels that we should "get it over with" before we get deeper into the relationship. We are about 1.5 years in.
Yea, I know I'm male and this is the ultimate male fantasy right? To be honest, I've fantasized about a threesome. However I'm afraid of what it might do to the relationship. I love this girl and she loves me. And I'm not sure if I'm very keen on the idea of sharing the first woman I've ever loved.
I've suspected for quite sometime that she was bi-curious and found out a few months ago that she was involved with another girl (kissing and touch but no oral.....as she tells it). The encounter with the female occured before we met. She claims that she isn't bisexual but has admitted to fantasizing about other women as well as me during masturbation. I know some of these fantasizes are normal, but I just have a feeling.
I believe that she is bisexual, given some of the comments she makes about other females. I don't find anything inherently wrong with this, but this brings up the fear that if I were to go through with this threesome and she was attracted to this other girl that she might leave me, brokenhearted. It could also, in my opinion, open up a "can of worms"..where she hooks up with other women (cheating) w/o my knowledge, leaving me again with a broken heart.
I don't think we should do this. But I get the feeling that she wants the opportunity to explore this side of her sexuality. I don't want to be overbearing because I fear this might drive her further away from me, but I'm not completely comfortable with the idea of this because of my strong feelings for her.
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Then there is the other side of the coin. She is worried about me possibly leaving her for the other girl that we would bring into the bed room. She also said she isn't sure if she would want me to go down on this girl or how she would feel if I penetrated this girl. I also tend to get into it when I'm having sex.....idk how she would feel about some of the things that may or maynot come out of my mouth.
So if your still reading at this point lol: Should I "man-up" and go through with it or should I voice my concerns?
Additional notes:
I'm feel like I'm split in three, the romantic part of me is saying HELL NO. The intellectual part of me is saying that this should be done to see: 1) if she is indeed bisexual or just a lil curious, 2) How I feel about sharing her before I go deeper into the relationship and visa versa. And the male part of me is saying THREESOME BABY lol.
Sorry once again for the double post.