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Have you ever had strong feelings for somebody, and then after a long period of time lost that certain spark that turns you on about them, mentally and physically? This girl i've been with for a year has been my everything, but just recently i've lost that "spark" i'll call it. She used to turn me on constantly but now for some reason I just dont feel it. I love her no doubt, but I just dont have that spark. I dont think its her, I think its me, maybe its depression? have you ever gone through this? I dont want to leave her, or hurt her feelings. I just want that spark back.
 
I know you don't wanna hurt her but the more you pretend everything is ok the more you're going to hurt her. You're going to need to sit down and talk to her. Explain to her how you feel. Maybe you just need some time to yourself to sit back and analyze the situation and figure out what your real feelings are for her.

As for getting the spark back try doing things you did when you first started dating....

I hope this helps somewhat, I wish you the best of luck.
 
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