Actually, my life sucks even more, but I'm back to normal!

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Noel C

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...uncool? Said which tard? I can understand if the tards don't like Quantum Mechanics or Philosophy because its too "difficult" for them to grasp. Anime? Several people like anime. I love anime. You'll find a lot of people here who do.

Parties? Even I don't enjoy them. We've got a lot in common, I see.
 
WOW, really? You like math and economic theories!? We can talk all day then. I am majoring in Math/Economics and I have a deep interest in theoretical physics and I probably will go to graduate school in Finance. However, you don't really strike me as the "nerdy" type. FYI, people to talk about math and physics all the time here are all nerds and just because I talk about them too makes me a nerd too. A lot of people have "nerd complex" and certainly Hot girls don't get near me unless they want me to help them with math. HAHA

I guess people tend to be themselves when they are online simply because
we don't see each other. Here is my new theory now: many people I hate are not bad at all; they just want to adjust their personality to fit the surroundings. (And surely the atmosphere here at LA is not very friendly.)

And anotheruser, I bet you aren't in LA. Los Angeles is like THE party place. People like me is uncool because I don't go out and party. And just because I don't even look like "the party type" so girls don't talk to me even if I do participate in some of those "parties" (well, you just go around eat and talk; I don't see the point of that...). People like me who talk about school and anime are just pure nerds and they definitely hate me. It's a stereo type here but I can't change what everyone thinks.

I know some "cool" dude lives next door and he has girls in and out everyday. Oh FYI, I hate him. HAHAHA

Oh Startdust, "Don't care what others think"?
Who'll marry me then (you)? I am a nerd and a very uncool person. Your friends will hate me. I have no eye for a gift or a dress. I pick the worst present for my x-girlfriends. If a dress happen to be the ugliest one in the store, that's the one I would just happen pick WITHOUT realizing it's bad. And it probably also cost a fortune as well. I study and work most of the time and during my leisure, I don't party or hangout with cool guys; I just play RPGs on my Playstation2. Those games are actually very good and I think they teach you about life and philosophy. I have no passion for expensive cars so I'll stick with my Camry and probably will never buy a Ferrari. I have no desire to own a large mansion so I'm fine with some 3 bed room condo. Hell, your friend will probably even think I am a total weirdo.

So given ALL OF THE ABOVE, do you still think being "yourselves" is the way to go? I guess not. I mean I wish I could stay who I am, but society doesn't allow that. It's just a mere fantasy that some idealist likes to believe (and one of them is my cousin who's a 40 year old virgin). The most successful person is always the one who can manipulate his personality whenever he wishes and be the BEST actor of this play called life.
 
First off, i am myself no matter where I am. I will admit, I am a little meaner and louder on the internet, and use FUCK a loooot more, but beneath this callous exterior is another callous exterior and then beneath that is a hardcore nerd.

I have never bowed to what society thinks I should be. I never will. I'm pretty much anti-social because people make me sick.

Now look, you seem to be seeking some validation from us that everything will be allright and blah blah fuzzy hugs and fishies. I'm not going to tell you that life will be ok and that you will grow up and have a wonderful life because that is not fucking reality.

Life is hard. Life is pain. Life is about making all the wrong choices. But most of all, life is about fighting for what you love--yourself, your family, your puppies.

There are no right or wrong answers that I can give you. I can give you advice, but I'm not going to tell you that if you just be yourself your life will be great. It most likely won't. But I look at it like this---If I am going to win or lose at this shit fest we call society, I am going to do it on MY fucking terms.

The only person I have to answer too is God, and He knows my heart already.
 

~~~~CLAPS~~~~

Please transfer to UCLA if you are still in CC. I'll be waiting for you. (j/k:) )
Got to leave now. Can't procrastinate to get myself wasted can I?
 
Actually, I am the uber geek and god where I live. People think I'm cool because I don't give a fuck about anybody. I've crushed everyone who has tried to pick on me and hence no one tries to fuck me up. Guess what? I've defended like-minded (in a sense) guys/gals who had the same opinions but didn't have the balls to fight back. In turn, they became my friends. I've got too many friends now who like me and most of them will stand by me till the end.

Just be yourself. You don't have to change yourself for anybody, assuming that you're normal of course.

EDIT: Tell me one thing. Why do you feel the need to change yourself for others' sake when you're perfectly content with the way you are?
 
Would if I could....life, kids, work......I was going to UOPHX for a few years, I have like 6 months left but dropped out because--well---I'm shit ass broke. But ty for the props.
 
Good question; actually, this is a strange thing. I am both content and discontent. I am content with the things that I like and I gain utility from them. However, because of that, I must sacrifice other things such as good friends, potential business partners, or even hot babes (yeah, I'm serious). So I am also discontent when I realize that.

I don't think being yourself is an option in some circumstances. You must change your personality when dealing with you greedy, stingy, and cunning clients. You must find all ways to please them and suck the money out of them otherwise you lose your job and that means living on the street. So even if you WANT TO BE YOURSELF by telling them that they are fucking worthless dick suckers, and that you are twice as smart than they'd ever be, you can't. You just have to change yourself to become this easy-going, submissive, and generous employee who'd do anything for your clients.

You must also change your personality when you want to get together with a hot babe. So even if you ARE a nerd, you must not talk about quantum mechanics with her. You got to PRETEND that you love her parties and her WORTHLESS, SHALLOW and bitchy friends who think they are fashion divas (and who really makes you throw up).

For me, I can do the first one, but not the second. :sad:
 
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