A weird friend problem that I need help with.?

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Jess. D

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Im a 14 year old girl and I just graduated out of elementary school and going to highschool next year. (its summer break right now)
I dont know whats going on but for some reason all of the friends that I have from school, outside of school are dumping me as friends.
I havent gotten a text in 5 days from any of my friends. When i text or write on their wall on facebook they never respond. If they do, its very quick and un thoughtful. Even though im really nice and will do anything for anyone, no one feels the same about me.
Its really making me upset,
i have no friends that are real friends,
I dont understand it at all.
Is there something wrong with me, or could it just be the age group?
Idk,
but I have lots of friends, but none of those friends care about me in any way.
Any help?
 
This is a tough situation you are in. You are feeling vulnerable, especially with starting high school within the next few weeks. Its ok to be scared, high school is shitty for most people. Here's the thing, if they are not replying back to you, then yes, what you feel is really happening. Either you are not their priority, or they don't see you the same again. Make peace with this instead of trying to figure out what happening.

When you start to do what you are doing right now, which is obsessing, it give people more ammo to use against you, and you don't want to be that person. Instead, learn to be indifference to what people are going to say about you. Use the summer to reinvent yourself, so when you start HG, you are have your own thing going on. People will respond to that better.

If you develop these skills now, HG will be easier. Good Luck.


And yes, people do suck.
 
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