For those of you into some 'different' stuff sexually, I'm just wondering a few things. First, is there a sense of fulfillment that comes from it for anyone out here or is it always purely physical? Secondly, how did you get you and your spouse/SO involved in it, how did you ask? Lastly, I assume 'rules' are necessary. What are some you practice?
The short of it is this for me. My fiance and I broke up. After months of thinking on what happened (because I do truly love her and firmly believe she still does me) I think we both lost a sense of fulfillment in ourselves. Mine comes from the relationship. I think hers may come from sexual exploration, a topic we have discussed in the past but never really got into. I'm really not put off by the thought of it at all. Honestly, it's appealing but I'm just shy I think. I'm trying to put things right and I'm going to suggest the idea to her, that I want to try it out. If she is pushed to the limits sexually, she will be content. If she is content, the relationship will build off of what is truly love. If the relationship is there, I am content. If I am content, I am willing to go further down this road with her, and so on and so on. It would seem to perpetuate.
Thanks for the answers and Happy Friday.
Ha ha ha. No, not like that. But I do mean whatever she would be into within what I could be ok with.
The short of it is this for me. My fiance and I broke up. After months of thinking on what happened (because I do truly love her and firmly believe she still does me) I think we both lost a sense of fulfillment in ourselves. Mine comes from the relationship. I think hers may come from sexual exploration, a topic we have discussed in the past but never really got into. I'm really not put off by the thought of it at all. Honestly, it's appealing but I'm just shy I think. I'm trying to put things right and I'm going to suggest the idea to her, that I want to try it out. If she is pushed to the limits sexually, she will be content. If she is content, the relationship will build off of what is truly love. If the relationship is there, I am content. If I am content, I am willing to go further down this road with her, and so on and so on. It would seem to perpetuate.
Thanks for the answers and Happy Friday.
Ha ha ha. No, not like that. But I do mean whatever she would be into within what I could be ok with.