A question that is up for debate....IMPORTANT?

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Why is it that whenever I buy something for whatever hobby, sport, or just about anything, I am never satisfied with it and want to return it to have the money back? I have some money my bank account (not a substantial amount, but not enough that I can't survive) which isn't really the problem, I just think it is a mental issue... I should note, that I am having some issues with my credit as well as some unpaid debt, could there be a link to the mental and emotional stress?
Thanks to all that have replied thus far. I will go ahead and add some information and see if that helps.

My past is somewhat tough with my father leaving me at an early age, and my mother having to raise me for sometime on her own. Our relationship has never been the greatest, but never the worst. She got remarried to a great man which I consider my stepfather but unfortunately after some time he fell into a drinking problem and is now behind bars for sometime, for an issue with that.

I do not think I am good enough for my family at all at times..I want to focus on my studies and they all just want me to work first and do school second, and thats not what I want....

I have tried many things and nothing has helped....

I know I am lacking something and I have been looking for a while...

The things I am doing are the things I have loved my whole life, and the things are for those....

I have gone more than 90 with out buying things and NOTHING!!

Please help and ask as many ?s
 
You're bored.

You're lacking something.

Like a good friend to spend time with.

Or you are trying to get into something that is just not you.

I do the same thing.
I buy games, bought a DS(because I used to love/play Nintendo when I was younger waste of $200), craft stuff, books(about 75
% I read through), etc. Bought dance DVDs, a gym membership, and parapara dvd. I do like parapara but some of them are too hard.
 
There is not enough information to answer this question. Any psychologist would ask about your past, and whether you never felt you were good enough for your family or peers, or whether you thought you were too good for them or whatever.

To be perfectly honest, you need to speak to a psychologist or psychiatrist, or look deep inside yourself, to ever reach the answer you seek.
 
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