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voicefromparis

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Sigh, so on a general forum I am the only person not allowed to talk about my life because it bothers you that I am a military wife, proud of it and open about it.

BTW: If thats all I post about how come there is only 2 threads in recent light about it; http://forums.wtf.com/search.php?searchid=351240

well I guess you can count this one.. so 3
You know lampy you don't have to read any of my replies.
 
Well, the problems you seem to face in your life are not something we can really help you with yet you keep posting them seeming to think we have the answer. I mean, if you want to post poetry in the Writer's Block about it, that's great. Find a release for your poetry. But I always thought of a rant site like this more to just air out stupid bullshit that runs our lives. Stuff that plenty of people have been through and we can just have support that we're not alone. You seem to be the only military wife here so how are we supposed to respond when you post about your problems of it? People here can wish you good luck I guess, but they can't offer you anything meaningful and I think you should try and find a place where you can find meaningful advice so you can cope with it better.
 
I'm an ex-military wife and lived my whole childhood as an army brat. I understand her posts. Honestly, I've never really seen her ask for anything, not saying she hasn't but I've only seen her mention things from her point of view.

Anyway, post away as far as I'm concerned. There's a ton of crap on this site I don't care to read... so I don't.
 
Actually I am on a forum for just military wife. Trust me if anyone got shit to rant about it a Military wife.

From deployment, to no we aren't going, to hey we were just joking about that not going stuff. No one, military or not, has answers to some of my more serious problems. I am not looking for answer. Just to vent and on this site I am allowed to do it more freely than say a military site that heavily enforces psec and opsec.



The stupid bullshit that runs my life is the US Army. So I fail to see how your allowed to post about your stupid bullshit but I am not.
 
I don't sit here talking about things I don't expect people to understand unless they ask because I know it won't get me anywhere. There's no point in sharing who you are if nobody cares and on a lot of subjects, nobody actually cares so I just don't say anything.
 
Sorry, but I'd dare say atleast 70% of this site is stupid shit no one really cares about... if that was the requirement ... well, it would take a lot less time to mark my forums read, I'll say that.

Sometimes you don't need understanding, answers or hell even responses. Sometimes it's therapy to just say it. We're not all the same creature. Different things work for different people. You don't expect people to get you, Lamp. Yet, you don't get someone else and ask her to explain herself or stop? I really like you Lamp, but this surprises me. I mean from all people, I'd think you the last person to criticize someone because you don't get it or understand...
 
Sorry noob and yes your a noob to me. You missed the boat where they picked apart my grammar... :)




*Shrug* Just cause you don't read it doesn't mean other people won't. I am who I am. I don't change that person just to fit into your neat little box of what others post about. BTW: I would like to tell you where to shove your neat little box, but I think you already know.

Just because you can't understand military life doesn't mean others on here won't and I have found some on here that do understand what I am talking about. So if you hate my post so much do what I do with half the crap on here and don't read it.

Like I said I live this lifestyle. So naturally a lot of my post would be reflect what is going on in my life.
 
If that's the case, then people who think like that should invest in a diary if they don't want to get criticized for it. But if you strive for more than just airing it out and you want people to actually listen...well, that's another story.



When I don't expect people to understand me on a particular topic, I just don't post about it. Easy as that. I may not understand what it's like to be a military wife, but I understand what it's like to be completely condescending and have no respect for the audience I'm trying to address and get to like me, which is exactly what I keep seeing here. Being a military wife doesn't make you a better person just because it's something hard to do. It makes you a different person. I just want to see this "I'm better than you" mentality stop which is all I seem to see in this particular person's posts. It's a problem I've had myself in the past and I'm working on fixing it as much as I can.

However Kitana, if you can sit here and tell me you don't care if you look like you're trying to be better than anyone else, then I have nothing left to say and I'll stop posting right this second.
 
That's exactly my point. She read the first sentence and immediately responded, completely missing the point of my post.

And Kitana, the fact that you didn't understand my post or me, doesn't make your statement any less idiotic.

Now somebody throw this bad boy into B&T so we can all have some fun!
 
By the way, I will also add, yes I care about this. I really don't want to see people fall into the same trap as me. My PM was a question of curiosity and the response I got was a bitter copout. I was simply asking if Kitana likes to do anything else with her life and I get this shit. So if it makes me an idiot for wanting to see other people not be so paranoid all the time and just open themselves up, then fine, I'm an idiot. I've been there. It's not pretty. I'm still kind of there now. I can't just sit here and watch other people do this to themselves. It causes me physical pain.
 
Well, I actually thought Lamp was trying to ask out of interest, but wasn't sure, but now after his last post, I can see he was.

I think somehow you took it the wrong way Kit
 
So you're saying you care about Kitana and want to see her blossom and live to her potential?

P.S. this is not a sarcastic remark. I'm just paraphrasing. The internets have no tone.



When does she not?

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