relationship? Over the past few weeks I have been seeing a guy, been on a few dates etc, he told me last week his ex of 3 years hit him and that was that, I was shocked, I didn’t know whether to go ask him questions or just leave it and so I just didn’t say much – didn’t know if he wanted to talk about it or not since I hadn’t known him that long.
Anyway I spent the weekend with him, whereas I am quite affectionate, I really like him gave him loads of hugs/kisses and he just wasn’t interested, he didn’t seem to appreciate it and not once has he came to me first and hugged or kissed me. When we go out though he will hold my hand or put his arm around me yet when we are on his own, its as if he doesn’t care. It’s very frustrating as he says he wants to see me next weekend but im confused as to weather he is actually interested in me or not due to his lack of affection towards me. Im thinking he is cold when it comes to affection because he was hit by his ex? He also flinches a lot when I go near him which it only occurred to me today why he is like this. Do I ask him about this or just carry on being confused? I just want to know if I am wasting my time being interested in someone that doesn’t feel the same? I want to care for this guy but at the end of the day I am feeling worthless – when you are first dating someone surely these are meant to be the best times??
Anyway I spent the weekend with him, whereas I am quite affectionate, I really like him gave him loads of hugs/kisses and he just wasn’t interested, he didn’t seem to appreciate it and not once has he came to me first and hugged or kissed me. When we go out though he will hold my hand or put his arm around me yet when we are on his own, its as if he doesn’t care. It’s very frustrating as he says he wants to see me next weekend but im confused as to weather he is actually interested in me or not due to his lack of affection towards me. Im thinking he is cold when it comes to affection because he was hit by his ex? He also flinches a lot when I go near him which it only occurred to me today why he is like this. Do I ask him about this or just carry on being confused? I just want to know if I am wasting my time being interested in someone that doesn’t feel the same? I want to care for this guy but at the end of the day I am feeling worthless – when you are first dating someone surely these are meant to be the best times??