Blueyedame
New member
...wife behaviour"? Hypothetical
A married woman had an old long time friend whom she had never dated nor had any such involvement with or desire to what-so-ever, and who her husband has previously met. If after 4 years of not seeing this friend at all & basically loosing contact with, say he stopped by to surprise her at a business she owns. They chat awhile & catch up, yada, yada. Say this friend also has a new Harley Davidson that he is very proud of, he wants to take you for a spin so you go for a short ride and come straight back without stopping anyway. His whole visit lasted approx. 2 hours and before going for a ride, in the shop, she continues working while they chat.
When getting back to you shop, you see your husband, obviously in a complete rage throwing gravel all over the place as he screams obscenities and ultimatums for you to "get home tight now". You are completely embarrassed your friend has to witness this.
Once you do get home you see he has thrown all your possessions in a heap into the back yard. He refuses to accept that you are not the "harley riding whore" and he will not see anything other than what he decides is "completely unacceptable behavior for a married woman." And you are thrown out of your home for days. He also continuously twists the facts and tries to make you and your intentions look worse and further from reality every time he brings it up again...and again...and again...and still does a year later..
My questions are:
Was this inappropriate behavior for a wife? And were his reactions warranted?
OR
Was this an irrational, insecure & jealous husband who twisted the reality of the situation to negatively control his wife??
A married woman had an old long time friend whom she had never dated nor had any such involvement with or desire to what-so-ever, and who her husband has previously met. If after 4 years of not seeing this friend at all & basically loosing contact with, say he stopped by to surprise her at a business she owns. They chat awhile & catch up, yada, yada. Say this friend also has a new Harley Davidson that he is very proud of, he wants to take you for a spin so you go for a short ride and come straight back without stopping anyway. His whole visit lasted approx. 2 hours and before going for a ride, in the shop, she continues working while they chat.
When getting back to you shop, you see your husband, obviously in a complete rage throwing gravel all over the place as he screams obscenities and ultimatums for you to "get home tight now". You are completely embarrassed your friend has to witness this.
Once you do get home you see he has thrown all your possessions in a heap into the back yard. He refuses to accept that you are not the "harley riding whore" and he will not see anything other than what he decides is "completely unacceptable behavior for a married woman." And you are thrown out of your home for days. He also continuously twists the facts and tries to make you and your intentions look worse and further from reality every time he brings it up again...and again...and again...and still does a year later..
My questions are:
Was this inappropriate behavior for a wife? And were his reactions warranted?
OR
Was this an irrational, insecure & jealous husband who twisted the reality of the situation to negatively control his wife??