A answer I can learn to deal with?

[dmikels47]

I will try to make this short and to the point, My first marriage lasted 5 yrs...had a son and daughter. Came home from work early found wife in bed with another man. I left an filed for divorce. At this time my daughter was 5 yrs okd. Later found out daughter was molested by the step father from ages 8yrs old to 16 yrs old. I found out and immediately filed charges and got custody, Me and my attorney had this pervert nailed to the wall with dates,times and degree of incedents,,,,The sick ass Mother got to my daughter not to testify. Lost the case. Over the years daughter asked me if anythinf=g could be done to the step dad?..I tried but nothing could be done. I also found out the mother was in on all of it,new it was going on. The Mother stayed with this guy?? said she loved him??? To this day daughter is now 40yrs old....We have a very distant relationship?.She still visits him and her 2 step sisters whenever she can......Mother is now dead.passed away at 55 yrs old.I think she died from stress and guilt. Step father beat her, made her do prostition, etc,etc. Why is my daughter so hard to get along with? I did all I could.but I continue to get cold shoulder from her?.....Very complex.even my son has more or less nothing to do with me......where did I go wrong..Am I the bad guy now?? cant figure it all out