My 8 yr old step daughter lives with my husband and i. We got full custody 2 yrs ago.Her mom gets her for the summer. My husband and i don't believe in letting her watch movies with sex in it. Her mother on the other hand doesn't mind doing it in front of her. Now my 8 yr old is wanting a boyfriend and asked my 4 yr old to take his pants off yesterday. I plan on having some sort of talk with her, but i don't know how for to go. Before we got custody she was trying to hold boys hands and her mom taught her how to grab a chair and shake her butt. She also always tries to wear clothes too small, or refuses to wear appropriate clothes. I really don't know how to help her understand that she should wait , boys aren't that great, and it inappropriate for these actions for a girl her age.