I coach a youth soccer team in Chicago's Cabrini Green projects. The kids on my team are all between 9-11 years old. The school is 100% black, and 100% of the students receive a reduced lunch, i.e. they are on welfare.
I don't even notice it anymore, but I was initially blown away by the clothing some of the kids wore. Sean John, Roca Wear, expensive shit. $80 Nikes, some kids even had Jordans. It was nuts. The same kids were always talking about playing xbox and ps3 after school, it was commonplace for me to confiscate psps and nintendo ds, even fucking cell phones. It really blew my mind.
But those kids were in the minority, most of the team showed up to practice in what were essentially rags. I noticed a huge correlation between the kids in rags and their attitudes. They worked harder, were friendlier, etc. than the kids in the Jordans. Their parents also showed up to games. This is huge.
I have to hope that some of those kids, the hard workers, will go on to make something of themselves. The question is wether it is worth paying the way for the welfare abusers so that the people that really need it can have a shot. In my eyes it is, though I certainly don't argue that there should be more stringent restrictions in place to curb the abuse.