Sh0paHolic
New member
Basically this is a rant that could possible turn into a question : )
As you read the title of my question, I'm 20 years old and I'm sick of being single. I've been single/ date-less/ boyfriend-less/ and sex-less for 4 years now. I'm a very pretty girl (Not to be arrogant, but people tell me like everyday) I'm smart, respectful, creative, and fun young woman but I can't seem to find someone to be with. I love my life, i have great family, could have better friends, and school is great but being single, for this amount of time, is making me very unhappy. I'm SCREAMING out for someone to hold me!
My friends are always telling me that they don't understand why I'm single, Hell I want to know myself. Im at school a lot but i do make time to go out and party but NO respectful guys approach me. An old friend once told me that I was intimidating to talk to, so maybe thats the reason. I know people always say there are plenty of fish in the sea, but that only works for girls who can get guys, or have a few lined up already --- I'm so sick of hearing that! I've only had 1 serious relationship and the other where high school crushes so they don't count. And i understand that i shouldn't be looking, and that he will come to me but 4 YEARS, really? I'm sick of it and im not sure what to do or if i need to change the way i appear in public, or idk! what do you all think?
I'm ready to share my love an affection that has been brewing in me for 4 years, i'm so ready!
As you read the title of my question, I'm 20 years old and I'm sick of being single. I've been single/ date-less/ boyfriend-less/ and sex-less for 4 years now. I'm a very pretty girl (Not to be arrogant, but people tell me like everyday) I'm smart, respectful, creative, and fun young woman but I can't seem to find someone to be with. I love my life, i have great family, could have better friends, and school is great but being single, for this amount of time, is making me very unhappy. I'm SCREAMING out for someone to hold me!
My friends are always telling me that they don't understand why I'm single, Hell I want to know myself. Im at school a lot but i do make time to go out and party but NO respectful guys approach me. An old friend once told me that I was intimidating to talk to, so maybe thats the reason. I know people always say there are plenty of fish in the sea, but that only works for girls who can get guys, or have a few lined up already --- I'm so sick of hearing that! I've only had 1 serious relationship and the other where high school crushes so they don't count. And i understand that i shouldn't be looking, and that he will come to me but 4 YEARS, really? I'm sick of it and im not sure what to do or if i need to change the way i appear in public, or idk! what do you all think?
I'm ready to share my love an affection that has been brewing in me for 4 years, i'm so ready!