foreplay. What do I do? I'm 21, my boyfriend is 24, he works 6days a week and his job is verrry stressful. He owns a house, and pays a ton of bills and is always stressed out! There is no time for me, and i feel selfish saying that but damn, I'm so horny! Nothing interests him unless i finally talk him in to having sex with me, which feels awful bc once again, the sex is all about turning him on, when i want him to desire me and turn me on. He thinks sex isn't that important in a relationship but i think really differently about that. I don't understand, to be honest im 5 ft, 115 lbs, really pretty nice features and he says it has nothing to do with his attractiveness for me, he says I'm so hot but wtf? I'm willing to do anything for him to f*** the crap out of me but hes just not into it and never really has been..
My other ? is when we do have sex, it is all about him. Going down on him turning him on, but what about me? Girls have soo much mental chatter and he does nothing to give me positive thoughts about my self. I would love to hear wow your body is amazing, or you are so sexy and irresistible. But i get nothing... he finally explained to me this..he said im soo sorry but im very selfish and only think of myself during sex, he said he was so sorry but doesnt know how to think otherwise. And the other day he literally got turned off by touching my boobs. What do I do about this pleasssss help im so horny and am sad my boyfriend isn't interested. Thank you! BTW he is not gay, tho you would think by the sound of it he is.
