1st time having sex..really awkward?

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D.C

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okay so i had sex for the 1st time yesterday, with my boyfriend (it wasn't for him though) so most of the time was really awkward for me, because it hurt & i would feel really self conscious about being naked most of the time... so is this normal ? how long am i going to feel like this & was it awkward for him because of how i felt?i hope not, im already embarrassed enough haha(:
 
lol it only hurt because it ripped your hymen the second time is always really nice after you've healed up and he's already seen you naked now so no reason to feel awkard anymore right? :P you'll learn to love it hehe
 
yea...sex always hurts the first time..

and about being self conscious, you obviously werent ready to have sex...

you shouldnt be uncomfortable with the person you're having sex with.
 
its completely normal to be self conscious about being naked in front of another person. things are only as awkward as you let them be. hes with you because he likes you, all of you. but it does get easier with time.
 
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