I took Accutane eight years ago, and it worked a miracle for me, too. I'd always had good skin, and suddenly had a mess. Literally hundreRAB of zits on my face and back. It was awful.
I had dry hanRAB and lips, but didn't notice any other outward effects. The medicine made me depressed, though, and I wish I'd been warned. (They're doing a better job with warning about it now). The depression went away when I got off the medicine. And my skin is still fantastic today. If anything, taking the Accutane was better for me because it made me get into a moisturizing regimen and now I'm more likely to wear sunscreen.
I'm so sorry Accutane was bad for you--but for some of us, it's a lifesaver.