16 year old looking for love, not lust.. Need help finding a girlfriend?

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I'm 16 years old, but I'm looking for someone to love, not just lust over (putting that into a simpler phrase). Is that weird? I mean a lot of guys, especially at my age, just look for sex and all that, but I don't. I'm not ugly by any means, and I'm pretty much always nice, maybe a little shy. I'm not a nerd or anything, I start for my school's football team. I have problems meeting girls though.. Going to an all boy high school doesn't help either. My friends don't really know that many girls either. And I get so nervous around them sometimes, usually when I'm with myself.. Help!
I've dated before, but I've never had a girlfriend before because I've never felt that "close" to someone before.

So my questions are: Is it weird that I'm looking for love over lust? And how/where can I meet more girls (and potential girl friends)? Any and all help appreciated :) And long, detailed stuff is really appreciated! :)

Oh and girls, how would you like to be approached, in any given situation (by yourself or with friends)? :)
 
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