ok so im 14 and i have a boyfriend who ive been seeing since i was about 5 ! we've aways been going out and were really close , ive not had sex with him OBVIOUSLY underage sex , but he desperately wants a baby with me :S he knows everything about me because really he was there when it all happened , my mum and dad LOVE him as they have know him since we were both little , hes so sweet and lovely to me and now he wants me to have a baby whit him i don't no what to do , ive lied in a bed with him and he has touched my breasts ( which he said would be great for breastfed ding as there so big !! is this weird and obsessive i think it is ? ) and he tryed to get me to have sex with him but i really didn't want to , what shall i do !!??
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14 and bieng pressured into having sex !!?
- Thread starter Spicey
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Stuff on mars
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Don't do anything you don't want to do. If he loves you he will understand. My brother is 16 and he is going to be a dad and he is a MESS and i mean MESS! I feel so sorry for him. Don't do it. I am 14 and I wouldn't dream of child! ( atleast until im married that is) Don't do it please!!!!!!!
Seems like he's getting ahead of himself for his age. IT's really creepy!! From what I'm hearing, you don't want to have sex or have a baby.
It's your choice to have sex or not. IT's not fair if he pressures you into it, and it's incredibally rude and horrible of him to do that. It means he doesn't love you as much as he should!!
Sit him down, and say this "I'm not ready to have a child, nor will I be for quite a while. I don't even want to have sex right now either. It's not a reflection on how much I love you, but merely how comfortable I am with the situtation. If you loved me, you will drop the subject and stop talking about pregnancy. I'm too young, and we're both just kids to have our own. "
Say that, and get him to back off, or get a parent invloved. Also, tell your mom! She needs to sit his parents down too and get them to help you straighten this out. You can't deal with this on your own because you're too involved with him. Get help from your parents too!
It's your choice to have sex or not. IT's not fair if he pressures you into it, and it's incredibally rude and horrible of him to do that. It means he doesn't love you as much as he should!!
Sit him down, and say this "I'm not ready to have a child, nor will I be for quite a while. I don't even want to have sex right now either. It's not a reflection on how much I love you, but merely how comfortable I am with the situtation. If you loved me, you will drop the subject and stop talking about pregnancy. I'm too young, and we're both just kids to have our own. "
Say that, and get him to back off, or get a parent invloved. Also, tell your mom! She needs to sit his parents down too and get them to help you straighten this out. You can't deal with this on your own because you're too involved with him. Get help from your parents too!
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IfItMeansAlotToYouuu<3
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Break up with him.
not only is he going to force you into having sex,
but he wants a baby, so he isnt going to wear protection either.
childhood sweethearts or not, finish with him. and tell him if he loves you, he'll wait till your legal and maybe single.
but i wouldnt look at him again,
you dont need someone like that in your life.
not only is he going to force you into having sex,
but he wants a baby, so he isnt going to wear protection either.
childhood sweethearts or not, finish with him. and tell him if he loves you, he'll wait till your legal and maybe single.
but i wouldnt look at him again,
you dont need someone like that in your life.