12 year old sister having cyber-sex?

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OK so it was like 11:00 and I thought she had gone to bed and I needed to do some stuff on my other computer so I vnc'ed to it (vnc = remote administration tool), and my 12 year old sister was having it off with probably 55 year old horny old men.

I have no idea what to do, if she was a bit older (like 15 or 16) I would let her have her space, but she is 12 YEARS OLD. And it wasn't like just casual flirting--but some really really dirty stuff.

she has been up on the computer until like 10:30 at night very very frequently lately, and now I'm assuming that all that time she was either doing what she was doing last night or watching porn.

I haven't told anyone yet, so what to do?
K its basically unanonmous right now for me to tell my parents except for danny. However it puts me in an extremely difficult situation because I (kind of) know how it feels to get caught doing something that I'm not supposed to (it was trivial--i was sneakily playing runescape in the seventh grade when I wasn't supposed to and got kicked off the comp for 6 months..)

So if i tell my parents--it could possibly ruin my trust with my sister forever and competely mess up her life more than just a hormonal stage that she is going through.

What do you think about giving some time (a couple weeks) to see if she phases out of it and then tell my parents if it continues?

From my knowledge it has only been going on for one or two weeks.
 
Being that this kind of activity can lead to some pretty dangerous things I would say that you need to let your parent(s) know that this is going on. She is only 12 yrs old and even though she may be saying some pretty dirty things, she is still just a kid. U don't want it to go as far as to her planning to meet one of these 50 yr old men so it would be best to nip it before it gets WAYYY out of hand. I am assuming that you are older so take responsibility and let you parent(s) know that it is going on rather your lil sis gets mad or not.
 
She's a girl about to start puberty, if she hasnt already, and her hormones will be all over the place, she'll just start being interested in boys and sex, there's nothing wrong with it aslong as she doesnt act on it and go meet the men in person, then you have a problem.
 
That's inappropriate behavior for ANY minor, but especially a preteen. Tell your parents. Her computer usage needs to be seriously monitored and limited.
 
12 years old is too young to be having cybersex. You have to let the paerts know. Show them what you saw, or video tape it and show them. But let the parents handle it. She could get in alot of trouble with the law.
 
Tell your mom!
That is gross, and shes is too young to be getting involved!
She doesn't even understand at this point was sex is really about, and having cybersex is just going to teach her that sex isnt something special, and its going to teach her that its okay to give yourself around.
Wait until she wants to have real sex, shes going to have the wrong idea about it!

Tell her mom, she needs to have a good, long talk with her.
 
Your definatly right to be worried. 12 is really young and yes they are probably most definatly 55 year old men ! The one thing you really have to do is to tell your parents when she is not around. Tell them that you dont want them to confront her about what shes doing and that they should take the pc out of her room so she has to use it in more of a public place then she wont want to be doing this. Also tell your parents that they have to restrict the time that she goes on there, say abou 8 is the latest shes allowed to go on. Really emphasis this to your parents because this is serious and she may end up trying to meet one of these dirty old men. Good Luck, & please take my advice! x
 
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