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    Do some guys still prefer "playing games" as you get older?

    I'm independent, happy, naturally hard to get yet somewhat reserved, ladylike, shy when we first meet but will open up to you (one on one) and if I'm comfortable w. you. I met this guy last summer and was such a gentleman - polite and reserved, shy, and almost soft spoken (he had help from his...
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    Don't you think talking about sex at parties is trashy?

    I have this friend (who I may have to distance myself a bit) who's parties are very "high school". She's nearly 30 and everytime she has a get-together, it ends up being "truth or dare: the sex edition" - "i dare you to give so and so a lap dance" or "truth: who's the last person you slept...
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    Why do some guys mistake kindness for interest?

    I'm a good girl, classy lady with manners, and naturally just a nice person. I don't go out of my way to gain others' approval (therefore be super nice to them); however I'm just an easygoing person with a down to earth attitude. I'm not a big flirt at all and as I get older I am aware that I do...
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    Name current hip hop songs that have sampled other songs?

    Sorry but this is getting kind of annoying. I'm a 90's kid and i miss old school music and not all these hip hop artists sampling other songs. I just heard Lupe Fiasco's "The show must go on" and just realized it was a sample from modest mouse's "float on". There was also T.I and Rihanna's "life...
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    Why do guys mistake kindness for interest?

    I'm a good girl, classy lady with manners, and naturally just a nice person. I don't go out of my way to gain others' approval (therefore be super nice to them); however I'm just an easygoing person with a down to earth attitude. I'm not a big flirt at all and as I get older I am aware that I do...
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    How do you handle people who have no manners or courtesy?

    I never grew up "rich; however my parents taught us manners and courtesy for others, but as I'm getting older, I find that not many people have this. At parties, I get judged bc I'm "different". I'm a nice person, approachable, and most importantly I'm respectful and nice to others. I don't wear...
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    For those in their mid 20's and older or those who've seen "When Harry Met Sally"...?

    "Guys and girls can't be friends" is the theory in the movie. I find that as I'm getting older, it is difficult to genuinely be friends w. someone of the opposite. You can get along w. them great (yes) but put in the same intimacy you do w. female friendships, you can't. I had a guy in his 70's...
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    A guy from my past texted me out of nowhere?

    I've known this guy for almost 10 years - since we went to high school together. He was always the "hot, football" player yet I was always his "cool hommie" he had. We were never close but it was nice knowing this guy and I could always laugh and have a good time. After high school and college...
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    How to eat healthier after workouts?

    I'm not a bad eater but I would like to eat a bit healthier. It's so hard finding fast food places or food joints that have good food to eat after workouts. It's also difficult financially (don't have enough money to spend on a $6 meal everyday, after workouts). I usually go to a local smoothie...
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    A weird situation running into my ex's new girlfriend - how did I do?

    I knew my ex from my best friend's boyfriend - they're related. We broke up almost a year ago. It caught me off guard bc he was the one that was very interested and I was cautious. The breakup wasn't heart breaking but made me a bit lost and insecure with myself for a while. I don't know how but...
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    Guys, "cool" or "creepy" if a girl contacts you?

    I guess it depends if you were interested in her or not but how would you react and what would you think if a girl you went out to dinner with (almost a year ago) contacts you out of nowhere asking how you're doing? (She was someone you pursued, got her number, asked out and after that first...
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    Should I bother contacting someone from my past or just let it go?

    I've had more than my fair share of creepy guys, immature boys. I'm almost at my mid 20's and realized what I really want is a man of decency, a gentleman - that rare guy who most women overlook. I'm a decent "good girl" and I'm starting to believe that's the kind of guy I need/deserve. Long...
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    Should I bother contacting someone from my past or just let it go?

    I've had more than my fair share of creepy guys, immature boys. I'm almost at my mid 20's and realized what I really want is a man of decency, a gentleman - that rare guy who most women overlook. I'm a decent "good girl" and I'm starting to believe that's the kind of guy I need/deserve. Long...
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    How do you turn down an aggressive guy who doesn't take "no"?

    When i was in college, i was "talking" to this guy (about 4-5 years ago)...and dated BRIEFLY. No commitment or relationship. No sex. I finally got him off my back and he dated this girl for 2 years. Everytime he's single he always wants to come back to me. Even when I had my boyfriend at that...
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    Have you gone on one date w. someone and can never get over him/her?

    You meet a great person. He/She may be someone you can actually see yourself with...you don't want to rush it with them. You go on the date... you're actually shy (can't talk as much as you do w. other people) but things are good, convo is good, smiles, eye contact, yet very subtle with the...
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    What are March Aries guys like? What's your experience w. them?

    I went out w. this guy a while back who was absolutely wonderful. I met him at this formal event and we hit it off right away. I'm a sagittarius and i'm someone who has no trouble talking to people here and there but i do have a tendency to be shy. I couldn't believe how natural it felt to be...
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    Is it your responsibility to always make the move if the other person wants to talk?

    My friend's new boyfriend seems to be someone who seems to be "opinionated", especially when it comes to me. I don't know if it's because he's insecure, doesn't like me, or tends to be "bored" w. life. I'm cordial w. my him but I have my cautions. I'm someone who will say "hi"/"bye" and some...
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    Why do some married girls have the need/desire to fix up their single

    friends? Is this rude? I've never had a problem being single - I'm always very content/happy to be having this special time for myself before the blessing of true love comes my way. I admit, i get impatient now and then but remember to look at the big picture. My married friend is seems to be...
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    *Gasp* Are there guys that act like girls and like to start sh*t and talk bad...

    ...about people? My friend's new boyfriend seems to be someone who seems to be "opinionated", especially when it comes to me. I don't know if it's because he's insecure, doesn't like me, or tends to be "bored" w. life. My friend wanted our friend and I to just "meet" him. He ended up liking her...
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    *Gasp* Are there guys that act like girls and like to start sh*t and talk bad...

    ...about people? My friend's new boyfriend seems to be someone who seems to be "opinionated", especially when it comes to me. I don't know if it's because he's insecure, doesn't like me, or tends to be "bored" w. life. My friend wanted our friend and I to just "meet" him. He ended up liking her...
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