nobody wants to be bossed around, but yes, it is instinctual for women to want a "protector" type of guy. i don't think its unreasonable for the guy to take control. i DO think its unreasonable if he abuses the power or treats the woman as inferior. just be a gentleman and girls will fall all...
hecks yes!! do it while you're still young enough to! that is so kick butt! screw the weirdos and your downer friends...go be an astronaut (sort of) and have an awesome time you can brag about forever!!