For your first time, I would wait until after your period is over so you don't get grossed out, some people don't care but this should be special. If you are not on birth control consistently, have him wear a condom that has a spermicide in it. Sperm can live within the vagina for seven days...
Please include the names of these publications, radio shows, tv shows, etc. and what about them influenced your decision to support/deny the idea since a bill hasn't been decided on and there are multiple bills still out there.