well I read what you wrote and think whether its a culture thing, or a rasta thing...it doesnt sit well with you and you are very uncomfortable with the whole thing.....so theres your answer. you dont HAVE to stay with this man. he isnt the only man on the planet or the only rasta to date. would...
turn the tv off, get rid of it, set limits or buy a timer and then let your daughter figure out what to do with her time. she needs to learn to occupy herself and after a couple of days moaning that she is bored...you watch...she will find something to do.
it is possible the tummy ache is not physical byt psychological. my daughter gets tummy ache when there is change. a new teacher at school etc. we would carry on as normal unless her tummy ache seriously intervened in her activity and for the most part, it would subside as she faced her troubles...