I just started going to a Yoga studio that features Vinyasa "hot" yoga. I really enjoy going but this place doesn't have any gap between it's classes and requires you to take your shoes off before entering the studio. You therefore have to walk across puddles of other people's sweat and funk to...
Bring a guitar, stuff for smores & hot cocoa, and suggest playing a board game by lantern light. You can also ask questions that will get conversation rolling like "most embarrassing experience" or "favorite childhood memory".
It sounds like in the midst of your depression and issues with yourself, your hubby is getting a little lost and deprived. If he is such a sweet heart and you are constantly nit picking at him, eventually he is going to walk out. I think it's vital that you get to the core and source of your...