I have no idea. What is that about? One day, I was at work on a Sat. so nobody was here but me and my dog. I wanted some raisin bread so I popped two slices in the toaster and went to the bathroom real quick. I didn't realize that it was set to that burned setting. When I came back, there...
It kinda depends on what part of the country you are in. But, as an American, it's been my experience that where ever I go, most are nice and polite and always willing to help.
I would have reminded her that although she hasn't been around long enough, you definitely have and my record should speak for itself. That's what I would have told her. And if I was mad enough, I would have told her that because I now see that she's the type to bet the farm on petty rumors...
Getting out of that environment, number one, asking questions and being around other people and honestly subscribing to the idea that we are all human, one race, period.