than shouldn't they also complain when christians who go out of there way to help them out, forgive, offer compassion, and do any other acts of love for them out of the love of christ? Or do athiests expect christians to be perfect and knock them for when they are not perfect for something, when...
If you were to build a house, and knowing you've never built one before - wouldn't you study up so you knew what you were doing? Is it any different than trying to lead your own life, a life you never lived before vs. listening to what a book full of wisdom on life says?