The easiest way to talk about sex in a new relationship is to say "honey, I know we want to have sex and we want to be careful and safe. You mentioned that you have herpes. Please tell me all what you know about it." If you don't feel comfy talking about sex and HIS STDs with him then don't...
Educating young women about safe and healthy choices is a must nowadays because girls are becoming sexually active at ages younger than 12 and due to ignorance, curiosity, precocity or something else they get into trouble easily. Trouble meaning that they experiment with drugs, sexual activity...