what i mean is like a race, where one person wants to win
and someone else MUST win.
are situations always like that, i ask this because
some people cheat to win, not because they want to but because they have too win.
I can't tell you how many times i hear someone describe a problem or issue in their life, and then someone says "you just have to look at it a different way, it could be worse"
or "change the way you think about it"
this is bad advice, but i keep hearing people give it to others
does anyone...