communication which you found out? about. The incident caused serious damage to the marriage including a separation. You are now back together with her but in reality you can't forgive the guy for being in touch with her knowing that she is married to you.
The communication between them took place several years ago but it still bothers you and you feel that they should be together with each other and that this did not happen only because you caught them communicating.
For this reason you are seriously thinking of getting a divorce and want the guy to know what he has caused.
Is it appropriate to write to him and tell that his communication with her has caused serious damage to the marriage and that the marriage is going to end in divorce?
The communication between them took place several years ago but it still bothers you and you feel that they should be together with each other and that this did not happen only because you caught them communicating.
For this reason you are seriously thinking of getting a divorce and want the guy to know what he has caused.
Is it appropriate to write to him and tell that his communication with her has caused serious damage to the marriage and that the marriage is going to end in divorce?