Alisha Martin
New member
Is it possible to be married to someone but not be in a relationship. We love each other but were both so not ready for commitment, were married and both know we always want to be together. Why do we cheat, lie to each other, and just not act like married people?! Were seperated now because im going to school and he's in the army. Next year we move in together. Were so excited about it. We never had issues because of the cheating and we rarely speak of it BUT we both know the truth. It hurts were like this. He started cheating first and i started because i was lonely and unattached from him. We get like that sometimes but usually were back happy fast, im confused, i know im wrong and theres no excuse for cheating but when were apart i feel so odd. I love him to death and when were together no one can seperate us. We've been best friends for 7 years, and now married for like 7 months, what should i do!??!!