this is a follow-up to a prev question i have:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20110114112452AAvvFDY
My boyfriend and I live together and have a young baby together. He works full-time and enjoys playing video games. I understand that cause I don't mind the casual game every now and then but now.. well..Please understand this when I say he plays EVERY DAY. And now I have a concern about our intimacy cause now it seems like he is more interested in games the coming upstairs at night to have some fun.
Example: this week mon-wed he works days so he stays up those night to play his games. thurs-sat he works nights again no coming to bed so ALL week im by myself at night while he does his games. how is that fair? when you have a wife & child, yea some games is fine, but EVERY SINGLE NIGHT. He might not be neglecting work or the baby, but it feels like he is neglecting me.
So for the question... I feel a little embarrassed saying this but he's been busy all week with video games and work. I got off my period last week so all this week I've been pretty horny so its only natural that I want some time with him. Last night I took out my vib and thought I'd give it a try. [note: i haven't used it in MONTHS cause usually the hubby is there to do the work] So I was there in bed and nothing. No arouse, no nothing. I gave up and went to bed. I feel a little embarrassed cause I couldn't even do it this way. I feel stressed and lonely?
Please read other question and this to get the full story. Sorry it was a little long. So what should I do? Advice most appreciated. Thanks!
to Karen Smith..umm YES I am a woman. I don't know about many woman out there but after bleed out of my cooch for a week, yes I want some good loving after its all finished!
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20110114112452AAvvFDY
My boyfriend and I live together and have a young baby together. He works full-time and enjoys playing video games. I understand that cause I don't mind the casual game every now and then but now.. well..Please understand this when I say he plays EVERY DAY. And now I have a concern about our intimacy cause now it seems like he is more interested in games the coming upstairs at night to have some fun.
Example: this week mon-wed he works days so he stays up those night to play his games. thurs-sat he works nights again no coming to bed so ALL week im by myself at night while he does his games. how is that fair? when you have a wife & child, yea some games is fine, but EVERY SINGLE NIGHT. He might not be neglecting work or the baby, but it feels like he is neglecting me.
So for the question... I feel a little embarrassed saying this but he's been busy all week with video games and work. I got off my period last week so all this week I've been pretty horny so its only natural that I want some time with him. Last night I took out my vib and thought I'd give it a try. [note: i haven't used it in MONTHS cause usually the hubby is there to do the work] So I was there in bed and nothing. No arouse, no nothing. I gave up and went to bed. I feel a little embarrassed cause I couldn't even do it this way. I feel stressed and lonely?
Please read other question and this to get the full story. Sorry it was a little long. So what should I do? Advice most appreciated. Thanks!
to Karen Smith..umm YES I am a woman. I don't know about many woman out there but after bleed out of my cooch for a week, yes I want some good loving after its all finished!