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Violet G
Guest
...lungs, dementia camping? She wants to go to her property up north in Elk City area, and we live in Nampa, Idaho. She is on hospice care, and only has a few months left.
I am worried that just the trip will kill her, and she thinks we are going to be able to fix the houses and have trees cut, things we cant do!
I have told her that it would be nice to let her see everything again, but her dementia seems to be getting worse, and every weekend she thinks she can badger us into going to fix things we cant do right now. Are there any nurses out there with some ideas? She is not going to let this go, and its hurting all of us, we dont know what to do--she's only got so much time left. ALSO she might try to stay there, and its not liveable, we would have to put her back in the car omg!
By the way, obviously we are worried if she should pass on during the trip! What do you do then, arent there rules about transporting a deceased person?
I am worried that just the trip will kill her, and she thinks we are going to be able to fix the houses and have trees cut, things we cant do!
I have told her that it would be nice to let her see everything again, but her dementia seems to be getting worse, and every weekend she thinks she can badger us into going to fix things we cant do right now. Are there any nurses out there with some ideas? She is not going to let this go, and its hurting all of us, we dont know what to do--she's only got so much time left. ALSO she might try to stay there, and its not liveable, we would have to put her back in the car omg!
By the way, obviously we are worried if she should pass on during the trip! What do you do then, arent there rules about transporting a deceased person?