don't want to read all)? We dated before and he was the first guy to ever dump me when we broke up the first time. It was for nothing I did. Then after we broke up he was convinced I lied about something (which he now knows i didnt).
After we broke up, he treated me like shit for 9 months.
Then, we started to get back together and were official after about 2 months after acting like we were dating already for the 2 months prior.
Well, we have been dating 6 months now. For 4 of those 6 months, he has been in a rehab treatment far away, but he talks to me almost every day and ANY time that he can. I am 100% positive he has been faithful to me while away and legitimately loves me now.
Now, he admitted yesterday that he cheated on me soon after we began dating again, but before he loved me and I told him I loved him. (He is the first guy to tell me he loves me and me to tell him the same. I mean it too.) He says that he finally told me because he loves me and couldn't hold such a secret any longer.
Yesterday, I was ready to break up with him after I found out. I've never been cheated on before either and it was a blow to my heart and now I feel insecure.
I do know I still love him though.
I told him to call me back after a few hours so I could process what he had told me.
When he called back, I could tell he had been crying and was sincerely upset and he admitted he had been crying since he got off the phone. He then began crying on the phone telling me how much he loved me and that he couldn't live without me. Basically begging me not to leave him and saying he couldn't see himself with anyone else and how he couldn't make it anymore through treatment or life without my love and support and how he would probably kill himself if I left him.
I could tell he was not putting on a show for me and seriously meant all the stuff that he was saying.
I have decided to stay with him, but told him that if he did anything else like that again or lied to me again I would without hesitation leave him and he said that he would never even consider doing something like that ever again and that if he ever did anything to betray me (which he wont) that he would not even try to convince me to stay with him, and he says he knows he doesnt deserve such a sweet girl like me. I have never done him wrong, much less cheated on anyone before.
I can tell he has really changed while away.
There is no doubt about it, and he told me how guilty he has felt about what he did and how sorry he is. Even before he admitted this, it has been clear he has changed and he cares more about me than he cares about himself.
We talked again today and I found out while at the store they can go to on Fridays he bought me something, though he said that he knows he cant buy my trust or forgiveness. He said he felt he needed to get me something though.
Last night I was in tears all night and I do feel very insecure now. I do love him though, and the only reason I wouldnt break up with him is I know his feelings as well as mine are true and I can't picture myself with anyone else either.
Is it okay for me to stay with him, knowing that he has legitimately changed, because of the way he acts, talks, and treats me now? Or is this just another heart break waiting to happen?
After we broke up, he treated me like shit for 9 months.
Then, we started to get back together and were official after about 2 months after acting like we were dating already for the 2 months prior.
Well, we have been dating 6 months now. For 4 of those 6 months, he has been in a rehab treatment far away, but he talks to me almost every day and ANY time that he can. I am 100% positive he has been faithful to me while away and legitimately loves me now.
Now, he admitted yesterday that he cheated on me soon after we began dating again, but before he loved me and I told him I loved him. (He is the first guy to tell me he loves me and me to tell him the same. I mean it too.) He says that he finally told me because he loves me and couldn't hold such a secret any longer.
Yesterday, I was ready to break up with him after I found out. I've never been cheated on before either and it was a blow to my heart and now I feel insecure.
I do know I still love him though.
I told him to call me back after a few hours so I could process what he had told me.
When he called back, I could tell he had been crying and was sincerely upset and he admitted he had been crying since he got off the phone. He then began crying on the phone telling me how much he loved me and that he couldn't live without me. Basically begging me not to leave him and saying he couldn't see himself with anyone else and how he couldn't make it anymore through treatment or life without my love and support and how he would probably kill himself if I left him.
I could tell he was not putting on a show for me and seriously meant all the stuff that he was saying.
I have decided to stay with him, but told him that if he did anything else like that again or lied to me again I would without hesitation leave him and he said that he would never even consider doing something like that ever again and that if he ever did anything to betray me (which he wont) that he would not even try to convince me to stay with him, and he says he knows he doesnt deserve such a sweet girl like me. I have never done him wrong, much less cheated on anyone before.
I can tell he has really changed while away.
There is no doubt about it, and he told me how guilty he has felt about what he did and how sorry he is. Even before he admitted this, it has been clear he has changed and he cares more about me than he cares about himself.
We talked again today and I found out while at the store they can go to on Fridays he bought me something, though he said that he knows he cant buy my trust or forgiveness. He said he felt he needed to get me something though.
Last night I was in tears all night and I do feel very insecure now. I do love him though, and the only reason I wouldnt break up with him is I know his feelings as well as mine are true and I can't picture myself with anyone else either.
Is it okay for me to stay with him, knowing that he has legitimately changed, because of the way he acts, talks, and treats me now? Or is this just another heart break waiting to happen?