Silly Giggles <3 (:
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...wants u 2.to make him feel better? Like okay well there are these two people that I was involved with and thought i was in love with and well now my fiance wants me to destroy there lives and put them in jail because it aggravates him. Me and the two people were good good friends and I still talked to them every now and then. Well he didn't like me talking to them now we are close to calling off our engagment and stuff because I won't do it..I need to know what I can do to help us without destroying their lives. Will you give me some advice on how to get his trust back and how to fix us back to some how normal. I am confused he is confused..He makes me feel like shit because of it all and he won't stop bringing it up. I mean if it is in my past aint it in my past?? I understand that I shouldn't have talked to them and that I shouldn't have slept with them; but I was a troubled kid going through a lot with my parents. I admitted that I was in the wrong and I have been real sick and then the sleepless nights being exhausted. I love him and I don't want to loose him over any of this nonsense. I don't know what to do and I wish I knew what I could do to fix this. So if anyone has any ideas on how I could please please help me figure it out..He is the best thing that has happened to me.
YEA BUT I WAS THE ONE WHO TALKED TO HIM. I AM THE REASON HE KEEPS THROWING IT UP IN MY FACE..I WANT IT ALL THE STOP AND I MEAN WE HAD BIG PLANS IN LIFE TOGETHER I MEAN WE WERE TALKING ABOUT KIDS AND WELL I DON'T WANT THAT IF I AM NOT SURE IF WE ARE GOING TO MAKE IT. I WANT TO WORK IT OUT BUT THE WAY IT SOUNDS NOW IS WERE NOT GOING TO. HE KEEPS USING THE IF WORD LIKE IF WE ARE TOGETHER THEN OR IF THIS AND IF THAT LIKE HE IS NOT PLANNING THAT WE WILL BE TOGETHER. I CAN'T SIT HERE AND THINK ABOUT IF HE IS GOING TO ASK FOR A DIVORCE NOW OR A FEW WEEKS FROM NOW OR WHATEVER...
YEA BUT I WAS THE ONE WHO TALKED TO HIM. I AM THE REASON HE KEEPS THROWING IT UP IN MY FACE..I WANT IT ALL THE STOP AND I MEAN WE HAD BIG PLANS IN LIFE TOGETHER I MEAN WE WERE TALKING ABOUT KIDS AND WELL I DON'T WANT THAT IF I AM NOT SURE IF WE ARE GOING TO MAKE IT. I WANT TO WORK IT OUT BUT THE WAY IT SOUNDS NOW IS WERE NOT GOING TO. HE KEEPS USING THE IF WORD LIKE IF WE ARE TOGETHER THEN OR IF THIS AND IF THAT LIKE HE IS NOT PLANNING THAT WE WILL BE TOGETHER. I CAN'T SIT HERE AND THINK ABOUT IF HE IS GOING TO ASK FOR A DIVORCE NOW OR A FEW WEEKS FROM NOW OR WHATEVER...