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My fiance says I make a big production out of it. He says he may look but that he "always" comes home.
While on a trip together, we went out with his friends to a restaurant and he checked out a girl sitting by her boyfriend and then another girl that came walking in. I was scanning to see who was coming in, which I have gotten into the habit of doing since I have been with him and one of his friends saw me do this and sorta turned around but didn't catch on.
Later, on the ship, he saw a waitress that I could see turned him on and then he turned to me and said "I love you" in a comical way. Thing is the waitress knew she was being checked out, he made it so obvious. What was bad, was this waitress was not even good looking, so I don't know what the draw was.
He saw a girl in a thong on the beach that walked in front of us and he told his Dad that he would risk purgatory for life from me so he could take a look. His Dad, said well, you have a Rolls Royce right here, meaning me--which was nice of him.
At the movies a girl in a swimsuit walked in front of us and he was looking at her from his lounge chair and she caught him looking and she walked in front of me with her boyfriend and she had a smile on her face. He turned to watch her walk away.
He kept looking over at a woman dining with her husband and she caught him looking. He looked at her when they passed our table to leave.
I'd say about 10 women in all with this kind of behavior.
One lady he engaged in a conversation in the art gallery. By then I was feeling not so well about myself and left with the wine glass in my hand. He came running after me and said you are the only woman for me. No one has treated so well as you.
I went through our pictures and he had taken some pictures of girls in their bikinis when he went for a walk on the beach and some of women when they were walking by us when we were on our lounge chairs.
I had told him for the umpteenth time and prior to this trip to please not embarrass me and not make it so obvious since it is humiliating to me and he stills continues to do it. He can't seem to control himself.
Other than that he is a nice guy, but this is the one thing that is a big deal to me with any guy. It doesn't matter if it is a quick glance, it's the prolong staring that is bad. All I want is a little respect when we are out in public together.
Would you break up with a guy that did this to you or is it just a guy thing with all guys.
My fiance says I make a big production out of it. He says he may look but that he "always" comes home.
While on a trip together, we went out with his friends to a restaurant and he checked out a girl sitting by her boyfriend and then another girl that came walking in. I was scanning to see who was coming in, which I have gotten into the habit of doing since I have been with him and one of his friends saw me do this and sorta turned around but didn't catch on.
Later, on the ship, he saw a waitress that I could see turned him on and then he turned to me and said "I love you" in a comical way. Thing is the waitress knew she was being checked out, he made it so obvious. What was bad, was this waitress was not even good looking, so I don't know what the draw was.
He saw a girl in a thong on the beach that walked in front of us and he told his Dad that he would risk purgatory for life from me so he could take a look. His Dad, said well, you have a Rolls Royce right here, meaning me--which was nice of him.
At the movies a girl in a swimsuit walked in front of us and he was looking at her from his lounge chair and she caught him looking and she walked in front of me with her boyfriend and she had a smile on her face. He turned to watch her walk away.
He kept looking over at a woman dining with her husband and she caught him looking. He looked at her when they passed our table to leave.
I'd say about 10 women in all with this kind of behavior.
One lady he engaged in a conversation in the art gallery. By then I was feeling not so well about myself and left with the wine glass in my hand. He came running after me and said you are the only woman for me. No one has treated so well as you.
I went through our pictures and he had taken some pictures of girls in their bikinis when he went for a walk on the beach and some of women when they were walking by us when we were on our lounge chairs.
I had told him for the umpteenth time and prior to this trip to please not embarrass me and not make it so obvious since it is humiliating to me and he stills continues to do it. He can't seem to control himself.
Other than that he is a nice guy, but this is the one thing that is a big deal to me with any guy. It doesn't matter if it is a quick glance, it's the prolong staring that is bad. All I want is a little respect when we are out in public together.
Would you break up with a guy that did this to you or is it just a guy thing with all guys.