This is somewhat of a long read so please bear with me.
I met this girl about a month ago at my friend's grad party, and I talked/danced with her a bit. She had a bf at the time, but they broke up 1-2 weeks afterwards.
I saw her at another party and talked a bit. Afterwards we talked a lot on facebook (with some flirting going on). The real icebreaker was one day where my friends, her, and I all went to the beach. We talked the whole day, whether in was the car ride back and forth, laying down in the sand, etc. I realize we have the same sense of humor and laugh at each other's jokes. I would carry her to the water because she didn't want to go in, she'd splash me, etc. It was a good time.
That same day we went out to dinner (with friends) except I picked her up and all of us went to my house where I serenaded her with my guitar playing and singing (making eye contact) and we saw a movie. (Where she pinched me a couple of times, we made eye contact, etc.)
We hung out another time at the beach again except I would say I became a little more sweeter with the flirting like playing with her hair (tucking it behind her ears) and resting on her shoulder, etc, just physical stuff. And we had dinner later on that night and we all chilled at my house. (But I noticed she would sometimes glance at me, vice versa).
What I noticed is that both times we went to the beach she only eats a roll with butter.
My question is if it would be sweet or weird if I visited her during work and brought her a roll just for no reason? I mean if things move smoothly and she thinks it's sweet I was thinking of asking her out on the spot in person to bowling and ice cream. If you were in her position what would you think?
You be the judge. (By the way, I only know where she works/when because we went to the mall once and she stopped at work to pick up a check, plus I asked her when she works.)
Also on top of that, I'm leaving for college in about a week so I hope this doesn't affect her decision. I'm only an hour away and if things worked out, I would visit her once a week.
Sex is the last thing I want right now from her. I wouldn't just give her food and say bye, but I thought if things would go by smoothly and she thinks it's sweet, I would ask her out in person (and when I'm actually one on one with her.)
I met this girl about a month ago at my friend's grad party, and I talked/danced with her a bit. She had a bf at the time, but they broke up 1-2 weeks afterwards.
I saw her at another party and talked a bit. Afterwards we talked a lot on facebook (with some flirting going on). The real icebreaker was one day where my friends, her, and I all went to the beach. We talked the whole day, whether in was the car ride back and forth, laying down in the sand, etc. I realize we have the same sense of humor and laugh at each other's jokes. I would carry her to the water because she didn't want to go in, she'd splash me, etc. It was a good time.
That same day we went out to dinner (with friends) except I picked her up and all of us went to my house where I serenaded her with my guitar playing and singing (making eye contact) and we saw a movie. (Where she pinched me a couple of times, we made eye contact, etc.)
We hung out another time at the beach again except I would say I became a little more sweeter with the flirting like playing with her hair (tucking it behind her ears) and resting on her shoulder, etc, just physical stuff. And we had dinner later on that night and we all chilled at my house. (But I noticed she would sometimes glance at me, vice versa).
What I noticed is that both times we went to the beach she only eats a roll with butter.
My question is if it would be sweet or weird if I visited her during work and brought her a roll just for no reason? I mean if things move smoothly and she thinks it's sweet I was thinking of asking her out on the spot in person to bowling and ice cream. If you were in her position what would you think?
You be the judge. (By the way, I only know where she works/when because we went to the mall once and she stopped at work to pick up a check, plus I asked her when she works.)
Also on top of that, I'm leaving for college in about a week so I hope this doesn't affect her decision. I'm only an hour away and if things worked out, I would visit her once a week.
Sex is the last thing I want right now from her. I wouldn't just give her food and say bye, but I thought if things would go by smoothly and she thinks it's sweet, I would ask her out in person (and when I'm actually one on one with her.)