This guy that said he liked me and he kept asking me out, this was all happening from November '08 to January '09. I met him one night with my friend, lets call her Stacey. His sister was bfs with Stacey, thats how we met him. The guy lets call him Aiden. Aiden started texting me and saying he liked me and asking me out. I wanted to go out with him, but I felt very insecure about myself and that stopped me. When I told Stace, she kind of took it as not serious, that I'd never even consider it (coz some things he said to me were a little on the horny side) and she automatically assumed I;d say no. i didnt want to say differently
anyways blah blah to skip the story and shorten it, i said yes but stace didnt know, eventually she said i should start ignoring him (coz she thot i really didnt want him) i was naive and listened to her and was scared to say i did want him after going along with the 'i dont like him' thing for so long. i started ignoring all his texts (i never met him in person again, btw) and he kept texting me asking why the ignorance
i felt so bad about it but its one of those things where you feel your in too deep you may aswell continue with what you're doing. i am 15 btw i wsd 14 when this was happeneing. i blanked him totally. i feel so guilty and bad about it even still. i have no closure for the situation and he probably got hurt a little. i want more than anything to bump into him one day and apologise and explain to him why i did what i did
but i feel its too late to text him .. and i feel if i do, Stace will find out and be like ''wtf did you do that for!?!?'' because she still thinks i never liked him and that he was just an annoyance to me cause i went along with that. what should i do? the guy isnt the type of guy to care too much for this type of thing but i need closure
what should i do? should i text him? what should i say if i do text him? and after ignoring him and everything and how far away it is now, is there a point? i feel i just need to do something. i feel awful about it
anyways blah blah to skip the story and shorten it, i said yes but stace didnt know, eventually she said i should start ignoring him (coz she thot i really didnt want him) i was naive and listened to her and was scared to say i did want him after going along with the 'i dont like him' thing for so long. i started ignoring all his texts (i never met him in person again, btw) and he kept texting me asking why the ignorance
i felt so bad about it but its one of those things where you feel your in too deep you may aswell continue with what you're doing. i am 15 btw i wsd 14 when this was happeneing. i blanked him totally. i feel so guilty and bad about it even still. i have no closure for the situation and he probably got hurt a little. i want more than anything to bump into him one day and apologise and explain to him why i did what i did
but i feel its too late to text him .. and i feel if i do, Stace will find out and be like ''wtf did you do that for!?!?'' because she still thinks i never liked him and that he was just an annoyance to me cause i went along with that. what should i do? the guy isnt the type of guy to care too much for this type of thing but i need closure
what should i do? should i text him? what should i say if i do text him? and after ignoring him and everything and how far away it is now, is there a point? i feel i just need to do something. i feel awful about it