...before we hook up? I like this guy a lot, and we have known each other for a year now. We've never done anything sexual, but we recently started kissing like 2 months ago. I don't plan on having sex with him anytime soon, but if that day ever comes, should I ask him before if he is std free?? Do you think he would tell me the truth--or would he be too embarrassed if he did have one?? I like him so much, that I wouldn't stop liking him if I knew that. But would he completely disregard the conversation, and think that using a condom would be enough??