would it be weird if I...?.?? honest opinions please!!?

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just incase ur wondering...he IS older than me...by like 6 months...so it's not like child molest or anything like that...
okay so over summer I met up with some of my cousins from out of state...they're not actually my cousins..I'm like they're aunt but we consider eachother cousins ..anyways me & one of my guy cousins hung out like the whole time...idk like we understand eachother sooo well...we can tell eachother anything..& were just like really close :)..honestly if we weren't family...we'd probably be dating except for the fact that we live in different states...anyways my ? is.....is it weird for me to like him this way...cuz I like him like alot...I dnt know how he feels about me...but if we were to date or whatever would it be weird..wrong..illegal??..honest opinions please :)...just so were clear..were not actually cousins...his grandpa is my uncle (my dads brother) are u following me..?..so his parent are my cousins..which makes me his aunt like twice removed...?anyways just please tell me ur honest opinion... thankss :)
 
it would probably be ok, as long as he is up for it too. I would be worried about what my family thinks about it, but as long as you two know what you want it would be ok. I actually know of a couple that are married now, who are first cousins by blood. They even saw a doctor about having children. The doctor told them that everything would be fine. So as long as you are not worried about what people might think about it, then I'd say go for it!
 
it would probably be ok, as long as he is up for it too. I would be worried about what my family thinks about it, but as long as you two know what you want it would be ok. I actually know of a couple that are married now, who are first cousins by blood. They even saw a doctor about having children. The doctor told them that everything would be fine. So as long as you are not worried about what people might think about it, then I'd say go for it!
 
i'll tell you right now, most people are going to say
that it's gross, wrong, and illegal.

but i honestly believe that if you really have that connection,
it doesn't matter what anyone else says or thinks about it.
all that matters is that both of you all are happy.

also, people might say if you have kids, they will have something
wrong with them. that is a lie.

so if you all do both feel the same, then go for it.
what could it hurt?

i hope everything works out (:
 
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