Would it be harsh to break up with my girlfriend over Valentines Weekend?

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I say this because we both go to different colleges and this distance relationship just isn't working anymore. We are always in fights, and it seems the only times things are good is when we are together and that is only because we are having sex the entire time. The only problem is that she demanded that if I ever broke up with her that I do it in person and the next time I will get to see her is Valentines Weekend. WHAT SHOULD I DO!?
 
dont break up during the valentines do it just before save on presents and going out save urself some cash if u werent serious about the relationship obviously
 
I'm gonna say...break up over the phone. Valentines Weekend is just a shitty move. Do it beforehand. Or somehow get yourself out there and do it in person, but not on that weekend...
 
I don't really find Valentines day anything special. It's just like every other day, except super romantic people and cable tv make it a big deal. So I say, you have a good reason to beak up with her. So just do it!
 
Break up witwoukh her the NEXT weekend. It would be total heart break to be alone on Valentine weekend.
 
That's tough. A break up is still a break up none the less, and she won't take it well either way.Then again, you don't want to waste a special day/night just for 'staying together' when you know its not working out. And then again, it'll be harsh to break up with her after Valentines. Then again, it's even tough to 'stretch' the relationship out so it doesn't seem that you're breaking up with her after Valentines. I'm really not sure what you can do. Just talk it out, stay true to yourself and her, tell her your true feelings and all. No girl will take the break up well, but you have to do it and just get the burden off your chest! You'll feel better about it eventually.Best of luck.
 
DONT BRAKE UP WITH HER CLOSE TO VALINTINES day thats when girls expect to be loved not to be dumped
 
breakup itself is harsh...and over valentine it'll be much more than harsh !
 
I know that she told you to do it in person, but you need to call her and talk to her about this. Call her and tell her that you need to talk about some things, and it's important. Explain to her the concerns you have. If you are both fighting, then she probably knows this as well. She probably knows something isn't quite right. Tell her that you know that she asked if you two broke up that you are to do it in person, but explain that the next time in Valentine's Weekend. Tell her you didn't want to do that. The truth is this -- she cannot MAKE you break up at a particular time (i.e. in person vs. on the phone). If you are miserable, which is sounds like you are, go ahead and call and tell her it's over.
 
Don't make it a harsh break up, just talk to her about how you feel, and see how she feels as well. Still buy her flowers and stuff, but just talk rather than break up. Just ask her if she thinks it's working out, and tell her that you just don't think it will work having it long distance, and see what she says. Ask her how she feels about it and if she wants to just be friends, or see other people, etc.
 
you're just gonna have to do the whole valentines thing...you may not like it.... but then again if you (not to be mean) but if you kind of ignore her for a week, she might sense something is wrong, and want to leave you instead? So that way it may ease the awkwardness of breaking up.Try not to do it that weekend... but if you MUST and happen to go out to dinner/do something on v-day, try the day after...
 
I say you tell her today, just tell her you didn't wanna do it next time cos it would be valentines weekend and you thought that would be harsh, which it would be.Good Luck.
 
Are you scared of her because she threatend you to break up with her in person if you don't like her anymore. It depends how madly in love she is with you cause if she really does love you then I wouldnt do it on valentines but if you dont mean much to her then I would break up with her on valentines
 
No it is not a good idea to break up with her on Valentines Day. She doesn't deserve that. What are her feelings about the two of you, does she know how you feel? Have you been honest with her? Have you found someone else and are you looking to make an easy way out?
 
I Think No I Mean It May Be Ok To Youu But She Might Think That When Youu See Her That Youu Still Like Lovee Her And Then Out Of No Where Break Her Heart, She May Not Feel The Same Way To But To Be On The Safe Side Dont Because It's The Weekend Of Love And It Wouldd Be Real Sadd .Btw I Know This From Experience .Good Luck .
 
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