...drugs or drink to much? I go to this sports bar on a regular basis. I usually go in for lunch when I talk to her. I don't want to just drink all night in front of her. She does work more days then nights I think she only works 1 night out of the week. I'm good with the owner, bar manager, bartenders. I've been going there for a year now and I just met her a few weeks ago. She has given me some signs the first time I met her so I think she may be interested. She also has a 2 year old son. So would it be a bad idea to try to get with a bartender at the bar you go to? Like lets say she has given you some signs already. She only works during the day. .