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Proud Mommy of 6
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My "b/f" and I have been together for 8.5 years. We have 2 daughters together, ages 4 and 2. He just notified me last week that he is resuming a relationship with his HS sweetheart. He is already spending nights there, leaving me to pick up the pieces since the girls are crying they miss him and are confused. In our talks I feel I have gone above and beyond the call of duty in offering him exact 50/50 parenting time and asking for no child support as long as he helps out with their needs. Of course that isn't good enough for him. He insists that he is going to move and take our 4 year old with him, and says that if I just "give" her to him then he won't fight me for BOTH of them. I'm not down with that because there is no reason for them to grow up apart, they don't need to be ripped away from stability right now, and I am a good mother, even he says so. They are girls they need their mother and I need them! He wants to move them almost 2 hours away too and enroll them in a school there when the time comes for that. I have an 11 year old autistic daughter that sadly he is throwing out hints that he will use against me, as in--"Alisha hurts my daughters and it's not safe for them here". I can't imagine why he won't agree to a 50/50 split but I guess he's been selfish in more ways than one lately. He has no DL due to a drunk driving in 2005 and would not pass a pee test for pot (I use NO drugs). With these factors in mind would a judge let him take one or both of them "permanently"? What are the odds that we could BOTH lose and the state takes them if he makes a good enough case against my autistic child?