Woman acting weird....help!!!!?

[Michigan_man]

This girl and I dated for a month and a half that ended abruptly due to her ignoring me completely. Things were going really well up to that point, great, in fact. So after about a two weeks of going crazy she finally emails me and says she's going through a tough time (family, work, etc...). There's no reason for me not to believe it, so I just replied saying that if she wanted to try again, I'd be happy to give it another shot sometime. So, it's been a month and a half and she emails me apologizing for the whole thing and that she misses me and wants to see me. We go hang out and have a great talk. Things were looking up. Then, a couple days ago, I text her, no reply until much later in the day. Same thing with yesterday, but then I decided to call her. We talk for a couple of minutes and I get a weird feeling. So, I ask what's up, she says she doesn't know what's going on and wants time to herself and think about where she stands with everything. I'm definately going to give her the time and space she needs. But, why, if she misses me, is she doing this? I really don't get it and would like some insight. Please hlep!!

 

[Lee]

Not sure of your ages but to me it sounds like she is in a relationship with someone else and that is why there are periods of time that she never responds. Could she be married or have a bf? Sounds like it. She can't commit with you to anything she just wants to come out and play every now and then. Forget about her.

 

[Cindy]

If having an available partner is important to you then you're going to have to date someone else. This fish seems to swim in her own pond.