My fiancé and I have been working on my infidelity & we have had three instances in the past year where she has gotten so angry with me during an argument that she called the cops bc she is dramatic about it & being her feelings are so hurt still that's her response to when she gets so upset. Not to mention she feels comfortable calling the police bc her brother in law is a cop in the next department over from where we live. Our last fight spiraled out of control & she lied saying I pushed her & she had our 1 yr old in her hands. She was so upset & crying bc of something hurtful I said while I was mad too. We do not argue constantly infact these are the only 3 bad fights we've had all year! The cop at the last incident called cps on my fiancé --- my fiancé allowed cps to come to our home & she was told he wasn't an official cps worker but was there to make an assessment. She gave him permission to speack with our child's dr & when he was leaving he told her this was the easiest visit he has ever been on. 4 weeks later he calls her back saying he needs another home visit & he wants us to enroll in this program where we would work with him with a therapist regarding our relationship. Not bc he had a bad resort from my childs dr but bc he looked over the police report & he feels we need it. My fiancé knows this isn't cps so she told him she wasn't interested in his program & he said ok. He called back the next day leaving a threatening message stating him & his supervisor will give me until Tuesday to work with their program & if I don't want to they are going to call cps & file an official report against me. It says this right on the voicemail. I've hired an attorney but he is in court today--- can they do this?? Should my fiancé amend the police report that she LIED on? She was so upset and mad when the cops made her right it. NO charges were filed! And this guy came here and knows there is nothing wrong & our child is not in a violent home! Our dr gave a perfect report! Even stating we have always been a loving caring family! Can they use this scare tactic threatening message to get us to join their program?
There's no evidence of harm or neglect or even emotional trauma! There was no arrest! No charges filed! And we know we did things right by allowing this social worker guy from some agency that's NOT cps to come do his assessment! We didn't even know it wasnt cps until the actual visit when the guy told us! If this was a REAL case for CPS why weren't they involved from the beginning? Why would they wait 5 weeks to call it into cps?! After a clean home visit and perfect report from the dr! Then they threaten us to get involved with their program or they'll call cos on us! Clearly doesn't this show us not wanting their VOLUNTARY services is the reason they called and not bc our child is in a dangerous home?????
There's no evidence of harm or neglect or even emotional trauma! There was no arrest! No charges filed! And we know we did things right by allowing this social worker guy from some agency that's NOT cps to come do his assessment! We didn't even know it wasnt cps until the actual visit when the guy told us! If this was a REAL case for CPS why weren't they involved from the beginning? Why would they wait 5 weeks to call it into cps?! After a clean home visit and perfect report from the dr! Then they threaten us to get involved with their program or they'll call cos on us! Clearly doesn't this show us not wanting their VOLUNTARY services is the reason they called and not bc our child is in a dangerous home?????