I dont get along with my mum at all. She was an alcoholic and made up a story about me assaulting her which led to me almost getting a criminal record. What actually happened was she was totally drunk and smashing stuff in the house and i pushed her to stop her smashing a computer worth thousands of dollars. She didnt speak to me for a year after i moved out after that incident (i moved out with absolutely no savings the day after it happened).
She used to always have deadbeat boyfriends when we were growing up. Now she is dating a single father of 2 who grew up on a farm. Hes actually really nice to my little brother (my dad is a deadbeat dad) and he shows my family a lot of respect - comes to all the funerals etc. Hes the first guy Ive seen my mum with who is not a total loser - he has bad taste in clothes and is always wearing Birkenstocks but hes actually a nice guy.
I called the house twice today to speak to my brother - when my mum answers and asks how I am I just say 'usual' as I havent forgiven her for what she did to me. I decided that her bf had nothing to do with what happened so when I called again he answered and I spoke to him for 5 minutes and was polite. No im not in the least bit attracted to this guy and hes totally not a sleaze and is very into my mum and does not look at me or my sister like that at all (I can tell as I have a pretty good sense for that).
Would that annoy my mum? Kind of hoping it will.
His mum and sister dont like my mum and I personally wonder why he is with her too as he seems too 'sane' for her
She used to always have deadbeat boyfriends when we were growing up. Now she is dating a single father of 2 who grew up on a farm. Hes actually really nice to my little brother (my dad is a deadbeat dad) and he shows my family a lot of respect - comes to all the funerals etc. Hes the first guy Ive seen my mum with who is not a total loser - he has bad taste in clothes and is always wearing Birkenstocks but hes actually a nice guy.
I called the house twice today to speak to my brother - when my mum answers and asks how I am I just say 'usual' as I havent forgiven her for what she did to me. I decided that her bf had nothing to do with what happened so when I called again he answered and I spoke to him for 5 minutes and was polite. No im not in the least bit attracted to this guy and hes totally not a sleaze and is very into my mum and does not look at me or my sister like that at all (I can tell as I have a pretty good sense for that).
Would that annoy my mum? Kind of hoping it will.
His mum and sister dont like my mum and I personally wonder why he is with her too as he seems too 'sane' for her